A Dusting of the Cobwebs....

welcome to my blog!
...allow me a brief introduction...

In a reacent conversation with my daughter, her questions were why I, and her Dad were so quiet about our lifes? Meaning writing or telling about our own personal historys.

I didn't think there was anything important to write about. As I was just a normal person, getting up in the morning and getting the day started, getting kids off to school, or meeting schedules of the whole family, cleaning house, and landry. Keeping little ones busy, and changing diapers, comming home fixing dinner, helping with homework, putting kids to bed, watch some news, go to bed. And then do it all over again the next day. Then some days was teaching lessons in Primary, RS, MIA, Sundayschool, cub scouts, or helping at schools, ect. Family home evening, Visiting teaching, and even some Home teaching and being the family schaefer. most of the time we had one car, 6 kids, one working husband. Oh yes, the multi years of music lessons, and baseball teams, coaching, and even one major jumproap champion, for one daughter.

We had trials too. some were very hard, just thinking about a single memory of losing our son, brings tears. But we are told that this life is to meet trials, and how we handle them will be for our own eternal growth.

A very wise Stake President, President Alred, once said "We are here to be schooled in the principles of eternity. We will work by the sweat of our brow, to work our way through this life... But remember we are here to be schooled in the principles of eternity."

So, I welcome you to my blog. Please feel free to stay and go as you please, and wander where you wish. And, as always, feel comfortable in sharing those stories that you may feel are just "an every day" thing as well...



Feb 8, 2021

Unending trials...

10/23/2011
Facing another heartache that I don't like going through.... It hurts too much, and there is nothing I can do to change it....I may not be here, by the time this one gets corrected.... My first one, has not been corrected yet, and its been over 23 years.... Sometimes the deep pain will wake me up at night. I often have to ask for heavenly help to put my feelings on a shelf, and calm my troubled heart, and help me, so I might be able to sleep at night.... Most of the time a loving Heavenly Father grants my request.... I guess that's what I get, when I give my heart away....

(Draft written by mom but never posted 💗)

Two Good Things....

11/02/2011


Two good things today... Pauli and James found out who their baby was.... A Baby Boy, his name is Eain Mitchel Inman. He will be born in April... :) Today I have only three Radiation treatments left. I will be done at the end of this week.... :)

(Draft written by mom but never posted 💗)

New Year 2012...

01/01/2012

I hope this year is off to a good start. and be better than the one we just left, with its toooo many surprises.

(Draft written by mom but never posted 💗)
10/02/2012

I am humbled that Father in Heaven grants blessings, and request, to help me in my life.
To know that He is aware of me and my needs touches me so deeply that words are hard to find.  I Love Him so much and very grateful for his love for me. I know that He lives.

(Draft written by mom but never posted 💗)

Christmas 2012....

1/01/2013


I have been so blessed this Christmas season.

A friend that I play cards with, asked if I would like her dinning Table, as she was getting a new set.  I thought she was talking with another lady by me, but as I looked at Penny, she was looking right into my eyes....All I could say was a mild yes....I wasn't sure of what I had heard.

I have always loved Penny's Dining Table and chairs.  If I was able to afford to buy one, that would be the set I would look for.  Solid Maple wood.  The table top slides a part, on gears, to add two leafs, or to store one leaf.  Out fully the table can sit 10 people.  The chairs have high backs, and are very comfortable.

(Draft written by mom but never posted 💗)
4/19/2014

Today is Eian Birthday...He is two years old.

Lots of people came.....Jodie and Will and Bella.  Ivie and friend. Paulette's friend Terri, and Sarah
alot of James family were there.

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6/18/2014

Pondering about life with my daughter Jodie, I have finally come to a good description of what it was like.
For a Parent it was like hanging onto the tip of a Kite tail flying high into the air...being tossed too and fro, sharp drops and with a gust of wind blown straight up again.

It took one Parent to hang onto the string, and one on the tail...


(Draft written by mom but never posted 💗)

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