A Dusting of the Cobwebs....

welcome to my blog!
...allow me a brief introduction...

In a reacent conversation with my daughter, her questions were why I, and her Dad were so quiet about our lifes? Meaning writing or telling about our own personal historys.

I didn't think there was anything important to write about. As I was just a normal person, getting up in the morning and getting the day started, getting kids off to school, or meeting schedules of the whole family, cleaning house, and landry. Keeping little ones busy, and changing diapers, comming home fixing dinner, helping with homework, putting kids to bed, watch some news, go to bed. And then do it all over again the next day. Then some days was teaching lessons in Primary, RS, MIA, Sundayschool, cub scouts, or helping at schools, ect. Family home evening, Visiting teaching, and even some Home teaching and being the family schaefer. most of the time we had one car, 6 kids, one working husband. Oh yes, the multi years of music lessons, and baseball teams, coaching, and even one major jumproap champion, for one daughter.

We had trials too. some were very hard, just thinking about a single memory of losing our son, brings tears. But we are told that this life is to meet trials, and how we handle them will be for our own eternal growth.

A very wise Stake President, President Alred, once said "We are here to be schooled in the principles of eternity. We will work by the sweat of our brow, to work our way through this life... But remember we are here to be schooled in the principles of eternity."

So, I welcome you to my blog. Please feel free to stay and go as you please, and wander where you wish. And, as always, feel comfortable in sharing those stories that you may feel are just "an every day" thing as well...



Sep 30, 2007

A Prophet for dinner...


My Primary teacher often made the comment, what if Jesus came to our home for a visit!.. that would be great!..... But for me, I have wondered what it would be like to open the front door and see the Prophet, stopping by for dinner, and a enjoyable evening with me, and my family.
My Grandmother, Sophronia Lydia Smith, (who married Ether Record Brimhall) was a cousin to President George Albert Smith. Besides being family, President Smith enjoyed the company of my Grandparents. My Dad said that President Smith would often stop by, and have dinner and spend a evening visiting with them.

My Grandparents had 13 children. Grandpa Brimhall's, brother's wife died, and could not care for his children alone. So my Grandparents took his children and raised them as their own, making 19 children in the home. Dad said when the dinner bell rang, you got to the table, or went with out. I asked how the family managed with so many children in the house? Dad said that the older ones helped to care for the younger ones.

I thought it was interesting that both my Grandmother, and my Grandfather Brimhall, had collage degrees. Grandfather was a school teacher, and well liked by all, He seemed to have a good sense of humor, and was one of those folks who seem to attract people to him.

A moment in time...


Back in 1921, Dad was on his way home from work, when he noticed someone who was trying to start a business as a photographer, by offering a free picture.

So dressed in his work cloths, of that time, he posed for the photographer. The results has been one of my most favorite photos of my Dad. Cecil Smith Brimhall.

According to the date on the back of the picture, July 23, 1921, Dad would have been about 19 years of age.

Sep 29, 2007

Pockets full of pebbles...


As I have mentioned, my mother's family was pretty close to each other. One couple mom and dad visited rather often was Mom's brother, Uncle Elton and Aunt Bernice Hartley. When I knew them they had a home on the Avenues, on the mountain side, in Salt Lake City. Mom and Dad lived in Provo, about 42 miles south of SLC. Back in those days folk didn't lock their doors and when they would go to visit, and not find them home, you could walk right in and leave a note. However it was not always a paper note, that Mom's family left.
Dad said he would find small pebble rocks in his pants pockets, or lumps of cole in his suit coat pockets. Mom and Dad had put Uncle Elton and Aunt Bernice's kitchen chairs, on top of their table. Or short sheet their beds. Dad said it was common for him to find his pant legs tied in knots, and penny's in his shoes. Or to come home and find their living room furniture had been rearranged.

Uncle Elton and Aunt Bernice's youngest daughter was named Lola. She was 6 months older than myself. Being the youngest in my family, and not having any sisters I really looked forward to the friendship of my cousin. (We still keep in contact with each other.) We often spent summer time together. We both played the accordion, but she played 10 times better than I, and would teach me new things that I hadn't yet learned. The song "What ever Lola wants" was written about her, by one of their family friends.

I loved their home on the Avenues. Lola's bedroom was upstairs. You could look over SLC from her bedroom window. You could see the "Walker Bank" neon sign, high up in the air on top of a tall 20 story building, called Walker Tower, built in 1911. It would change colors, Red or Blue, blinking or still, telling folk what the weather was going to be, depending on the color, and if the sign was blinking or not.
It was one of my favorite memories, to sit by the low open window at night,watching the Walker bank sign, feeling the cool breeze on my face, and talking with my best friend about girl things.

Sep 27, 2007

Name-Tag...

I guess you can tell I was tagged for the "Name-Tag" game of ones, middle name. Of course you can probably tell it was my daughter Paulett who tagged me. By the way "Wom" is a nickname given to me by my kids.
My middle name is Elaine, Short, should be easy, I have sat over a week thinking about it. Totally blank minded....Finley coming to my rescue, here is Paulette rendition of my Name-Tag.

Elaine

E...elegant
L...loving
A...a....cool mom
I...intreeging
N...Nice-Nice
E...eats too much sugar

Isn't that neat to be thought of that way, even though some of it is untrue, like elegant! intreeging! and yes, I sometimes get trapped eating too much sugar, I am a diabetic.

Sep 24, 2007

My Reminder Why...


I was very discourage today concerning my writing. I had visited quite a few other blogs and loved all that was written. Then that old feeling came up of, I don't measure up, and am not good enough to be writing, and a few other negative lines I bet most folks feel from time to time.

But I had to remind myself, that I was writing for my kids. (Kids?? age 41 and down)
to tell them things that happened in my life and some things that happened in my parents life, and family, as far as I can remember them. So I don't have to be perfect in writing, they will love me anyways.

So if any body elts who might find my writing interesting, your more than welcome to keep reading. To my surprise, I have enjoyed writing.

Sep 23, 2007

Pinching cheeks...


I often find it interesting to just listen to the younger generation, about how women's makeup should be applied today. Take the art of Blush for example. I remember my mother talking with her sisters about when they were young, how it was the custom to pinch their cheeks to make them turn pink. (You can still see this in some of the old movies.) Pink cheeks made one look healthy, and happy. I guess someone figured out that the use of lipstick worked great, and was easier on the tender skin than pinching. So a dab or two of lipstick, then smearing it into the skin worked very well. It worked so well, that the next thing you saw was called "Rouge". Lipstick poured into a little dish, compact, or pot. (still wet and waxy) Applied by dipping your finger into the Rouge, and applying it to the cheek. Next came "Blush", A powdered form of Rouge. A great idea, but I had to get use to the name, It was first applied with a makeup powder puff, and now with a makeup brush. Very easy to apply, and beautiful to look at.

Where to put Blush has been interesting as well. Of course as years turn, each group has to do something different in application, and it has to be the "Now Thing". Sometimes I think women get confused.
I have seen Blush applied to the upper part of the cheek, under the eye, and maybe a little to the side of the eye. Causing one to focus on the warmth of the eyes.
Next has been Blush applied to sides of cheeks, and middle of face, forehead, end of nose and chin. I don't know why, it was told me to keep a healthy look...hum..
The one I can't figure out is the Blush streak almost from corner of mouth, straight line passed the corner of the eye. Still little popular, but to me it doesn't bring out the best looks in a woman, it just causes people to stare, and not see who is wearing it.
There is also those who wear Blush on the bottom of the cheek. It looks OK, but sometimes gives a wearing of sunglass suntan look.

Blush is a wonderful thing. As the years past, I am finding the color is fading from my face, and a few more, what they call happy lines?? running across my forehead, and elts where. Its nice to be able to add a little color, and to feel better about myself.

Sep 14, 2007

A Mouse in the house...


My mother's oldest sister, Mamie (Mary) Swapp and her husband Joe Swapp, who at one time was the mayor of Provo, owned two homes, one was in Vivian Park, in Provo Canyon. This was a place where the whole family loved to be. Up the canyon, where you were in the Mountains. And the smell of the pine trees, and feeling of the cool breeze in the evening. It was very dark at night for there was no street lights there. They had a little creek that ran down the mountain side, just behind their back fence. This was a very comfortable home, it had two bedrooms, but it also had a bed on the large front screened porch, and one in the inclosed back porch. The home was mostly heated by a fireplace in the front room. which they burned cole and wood. In the Kitchen was a cole stove for cooking and heating of the home. This cole stove was an interesting experience to try to cook on. Uncle Joe loved to make sourdoe pancakes, he would tell us stories of making the pancakes while sheep herding early in his life. He would fry pancakes for you, until you could hold no more.

This place holds many bright memories.
The neighbor who lived next door had a gentle heart, and had compassion for animals. He had a love for humming birds. All around his yard was placed small bottles on sticks, filled with sugar water. (about 60 or more). There seemed to be hundreds of humming birds in his yard. They would follow him, sit on his hat, or shoulder, and sit on his hose as he was watering the flowers in his yard by hand. He even had a sparrow for a pet. Hurt and abandon, and unable to fly, this baby bird was raised and cared for by this man and his wife. Years later when a mother deer was killed, this man took care of her fawn until he could be on his own. As a youth I learned the sweetness of kindness.

Someone in the Hartley family had created a marble and dice game called Wahoo.
(I have seen similar games by other family's, since). It was not unusual for mom's family to meet once a week and play Wahoo. Each family had their own game board.
I remember one time when some of the family, was playing at Aunt Mamie's home in Vivian Park. As the game was being played, it was interrupted by a mouse that had run into the house. Folks armed with brooms, or sticks, or anything they could get their hands on, were chasing this poor mouse all around the room. To me these "older folks" were laughing so hard they couldn't stand on their feet, and the mouse was frantically trying to find a way out, or a place to hide. After a good half hour the mouse ran for his life out the door. I don't think anyone had the strength to swing at him, for their sides were hurting too much from laughing. I don't think there were any intention of hurting the mouse, they were just enjoying each other. That was what mom's family did. After a few breathers, the Wahoo game continued.

This was the same home that Lynn and I were to stay at, on our wedding night. After our reception, the church had to be cleaned because of another wedding planed for the next day. In the early hours of the morning, around 2:00 am, while still dressed in my wedding dress, and Lynn in his suit. We arrived at the home. getting everything out of the car that we would need, Lynn put the key into the doorknob, and it broke off.
Checking all around, there was no other way into the house. Putting everything back into the car, driving back to Orem, and feeling hungry, we stopped at a sandwich shop. Lynn went in, I was still in my wedding dress and stayed in the car. Then we drove to the little home in Lehi that we had rented. We were announced to the neighbors of our arrival, by the rocks in the hubcaps.. We had to use camping lanterns, because the electricity, and gas were not turned on yet.
Latter we found out that the home in Vivian Park had flooded that night, by a broken water pipe.

Vivian Park had a large pond. In the summer you could go boating and fishing. In the winter we would go Ice skating on it.

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